Bobbi Kyle Gutierrez, LMFT

FOUNDER & PSYCHOTHERAPIST OF ELDER EMO THERAPY

Who I Work With

Individuals and couples, from middle school age to their 60s, who’ve faced childhood trauma, are exploring neurodivergence, and are in pursuit of their authentic selves. Together, we create a space where you can deeply explore your emotions, uncover underlying patterns, and step into your true self with authenticity.

  • Attachment Trauma

  • Complex Trauma

  • Inner Child

  • Adult ADHD & ADHD Evaluations 

  • Adult Autism with low-moderate support needs 

  • Substance Use

  • Relationships

  • Communication

  • LGBTQIA+ 

  • ENM/Polyamory

  • Self-Worth

  • Questioning ADHD/Autism—can help determine if a formal diagnosis would be beneficial.

  • Modalities: AEDP, IFS, CBT, DBT, Narrative, Gottman, Nonviolent Communication. 

My Specialties

About

I consider myself an Elder Emo - someone who grew up loving black clothing, band tees, and concerts. But as I tried to conform to society's expectations as a young adult, I felt miserable and lost. It wasn't until I did some deep introspective work (aka therapy) and focused on my own needs that I realized what was missing: authenticity.

That's why I founded Elder Emo Therapy - to provide a safe and welcoming space where my clients can come as they are, with no need to pretend or hide their true selves. I believe that therapy should be a place where you feel fully seen and heard, where you can be vulnerable and honest without fear of judgment. We’ve spent WAY too much of our lives being told to, or feeling like we need to pretend that we’re okay or someone we’re not…

Spoiler alert: THAT’S NOT OKAY.

What Makes Me Come Alive

I am a lifelong learner, and exploring new ideas, skills, and perspectives makes me feel truly alive. Whether it’s diving into a new topic, discovering a fresh way to support my clients, or simply indulging my curiosity, the process of learning stimulates my brain and brings me joy. It keeps me engaged, inspired, and connected to the world around me.

  • Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology, emphasis in Correctional Psychology, Santa Clara University, 2019

    Bachelor of Science in Psychology & Social Action, Palo Alto University, 2016

  • Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist # 142561

Education

  • Level 1 AEDP

  • Level 1 Gottman 

  • IFS informed

  • Adult ADHD Evaluations

  • Neuroaffirming Care

  • Brainspotting Phase 1

  • Health at Every Size Informed

  • CBT

  • DBT

  • Motivational Interviewing 

  • Non-monogamy and Polyamory

  • CAAMFT Membership

Certifications/ Advanced Training/ Memberships

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